下面是范文網(wǎng)小編分享的天下智慧，莫過(guò)舍得美文共5篇(天下智慧,莫過(guò)舍得美文共賞析)，以供借鑒。
天下智慧，莫過(guò)舍得美文共1
最早接觸舍得酒，是本世紀(jì)初的事情了，第一次在深圳的建設(shè)路看到舍得酒大幅廣告牌，覺(jué)得很是大氣和講究。而后偶然聽(tīng)到一個(gè)酒商嘲笑舍得，說(shuō)用粵語(yǔ)念起來(lái)很像：死得。雖然是個(gè)很市井的玩笑，到是讓我加深了印象，十載后仍歷歷在心。
本世紀(jì)初，是個(gè)白酒行業(yè)烽煙四起的時(shí)代，五糧液和茅臺(tái)高高的矗立在那里，高額的利潤(rùn)讓其他堪與齊名的名酒廠垂涎不已。占據(jù)高檔酒市場(chǎng)的欲望，估計(jì)從上世紀(jì)末就已經(jīng)放在這些老名酒大腕的會(huì)議桌上了。但是老名酒廠各有各的優(yōu)勢(shì)，也各有各的軟肋。瀘州老窖一直都很厚道，不管從品質(zhì)上還是從價(jià)格上都無(wú)愧于濃香泰斗，德高望重的厚實(shí)本質(zhì)。如果像瀘州老窖這樣資歷的企業(yè)，在高端市場(chǎng)都站不住腳跟，實(shí)在是讓人扼腕心痛的事情，于是就有了國(guó)窖1573。全興酒廠推出了個(gè)水井坊，和國(guó)窖一樣，從產(chǎn)品到出品公司，都完全隱去了老牌子的痕跡，怕的就是受到老牌子市場(chǎng)形象的影響，這種不啃老的做法，從今天來(lái)看，確實(shí)是英明的謀略。當(dāng)年，劍南春出了個(gè)高檔酒，名叫“東方紅“包裝和名字，都不缺大氣，唯獨(dú)做市場(chǎng)不夠大氣，以致這么多年，也沒(méi)見(jiàn)出人頭地。
沱牌的問(wèn)題很明顯，論歷史，確確實(shí)實(shí)可以經(jīng)得起推敲的，血脈相傳的歷史可圈可點(diǎn)。論形象，沱牌幾乎是中國(guó)低檔流通貨的代名詞，素有沱老大之稱。高端酒或者說(shuō)奢侈品，如果少了不可復(fù)制的歷史，卓越的品質(zhì)，以及及其稀缺性這些特征，似乎很難在高端奢侈品的群落里扎根，
沱牌人在上舍得這個(gè)品牌之前，估計(jì)也沒(méi)少費(fèi)腦筋。然而，歷史，是自然成就的，也是人造就的。國(guó)窖的賣點(diǎn)是歷史和品質(zhì)，那是因?yàn)樗_實(shí)有這些賣點(diǎn)。水井坊在賣文物和文化，也確實(shí)，文物是有的，文化也是策的很到位的。這兩款酒不僅找到了很貼身的賣點(diǎn)，做市場(chǎng)的能力和手段也是讓人折服的。
而沱牌，可以做什么？
賣歷史，沱牌自己底氣不足。沱牌可以賣的，一是質(zhì)量，二是文化。沱牌不管釀酒技術(shù)水平，還是生產(chǎn)能力，都沒(méi)問(wèn)題，大量庫(kù)存的優(yōu)質(zhì)原酒對(duì)于沱牌來(lái)講，是不容置疑的。而且，沱牌公司歷來(lái)不善于銷售高檔酒，好酒都放在倉(cāng)庫(kù)里屯著，低檔酒賣的稀里嘩啦的。所以說(shuō)，質(zhì)量是沱牌肯定要打的一張牌。而文化就更簡(jiǎn)單了，文化有兩部分，一個(gè)是確有其事的，歷經(jīng)歲月沉淀下來(lái)的歷史文化，一個(gè)是根據(jù)需要制造或者借用的文化。而最適合沱牌的，就是后者。酒廠可以沒(méi)歷史，沒(méi)文化，但是可以杜撰或者引用一個(gè)品牌文化。
“舍得“一詞，在中國(guó)，蘊(yùn)含了豐富的哲學(xué)智慧。用這個(gè)詞做白酒，絕對(duì)是個(gè)頂級(jí)的創(chuàng)意。沱牌的產(chǎn)品開(kāi)發(fā)團(tuán)隊(duì)，絕對(duì)是一群思想家。這個(gè)名叫舍得的品牌，同樣避開(kāi)沱牌企業(yè)和”沱老大“產(chǎn)品形象的影響，單獨(dú)注冊(cè)運(yùn)營(yíng)公司，運(yùn)營(yíng)一款看起來(lái)似乎與沱牌毫無(wú)關(guān)聯(lián)的產(chǎn)品。在賣點(diǎn)上，沱牌選擇了品質(zhì)和文化作為賣點(diǎn)，這也符合沱牌企業(yè)本身的實(shí)際情況。無(wú)疑，從產(chǎn)品開(kāi)發(fā)上來(lái)講，舍得是一款開(kāi)發(fā)的很成功的酒。它試圖將中國(guó)傳統(tǒng)哲學(xué)文化全方位的揉進(jìn)這款產(chǎn)品里，處處體現(xiàn)出他厚重的文化魅力。
天下智慧，莫過(guò)舍得美文共2
我家的門前住著一個(gè)大孩子，我們都叫他“傻白甜”。
但其實(shí)他不傻，只是人看起來(lái)，木木的，反應(yīng)也不快，我們就用這個(gè)很流行的詞匯來(lái)叫他。但他也不是那么一無(wú)是處，他又高又壯，體育也是好的不行。臉上時(shí)時(shí)刻刻掛著一張嬰兒般的笑臉，讓人很自然地就信任他。
當(dāng)時(shí)在孩子群里，地位的高低不看你成績(jī)有多好，而在于你體育有多強(qiáng)。于是他就自然地成為了我圈子里的中心。也沒(méi)人別的人會(huì)不服，除了我。幾年來(lái)，我一直和他一起玩。我仗著自己會(huì)耍小聰明。常常在他面前占了上風(fēng)，主宰著一切。但我沒(méi)有想到他剛剛進(jìn)入我的圈子，我的位子就這么快被搶了。我有些不甘心。
妒忌的火焰在心中越燃越旺，迫使我在一天早上向他發(fā)出挑戰(zhàn)：我約了一群伙伴去騎車。我這么做也是有私心的，我要讓他們都可以看到我的勝利，告訴他們“傻白甜”可以的事情，我也可以!
當(dāng)我約他的時(shí)候，他沒(méi)有答應(yīng)，也沒(méi)有拒絕。只是仔細(xì)地問(wèn)了我比賽的時(shí)間。在他那張臉上，我第一次看到了不那么傻的笑容，反而我感覺(jué)有一種深邃的目光早已將我打量得一干二凈。這種感覺(jué)從未有過(guò)，我心中不僅多了一絲被小看的惱火，還有一絲擔(dān)憂：他如果真贏了我，我該怎么辦?可當(dāng)時(shí)已經(jīng)是箭在弦上，不得不發(fā)，時(shí)間已經(jīng)不容我再考慮了。
兩輛公共自行車橫在大馬路上，清晨的馬路也沒(méi)什么人，環(huán)衛(wèi)工人打掃完也就坐在別的攤子里喝著茶笑著看著兩個(gè)年輕人之間的火焰。我知道，只有第一我才能被伙伴們稱贊。而第二卻只能甘拜下風(fēng)。我沒(méi)有當(dāng)?shù)诙拇蛩恪?/p>
那就來(lái)賽一場(chǎng)吧!
兩輛小紅車馳騁在空曠的馬路上，你追我趕，差距從未擴(kuò)大卻也從未減小。感覺(jué)好像是兩輛車依依相惜，難舍難分。大街，小巷，高樓，農(nóng)舍，全都有我們的身影。爭(zhēng)得就是這個(gè)第一，拼的就是這條命。兩個(gè)人又加緊了踏板的速度。在后面追隨的小伙伴早已叫苦不迭，落在后頭。這個(gè)時(shí)候，腳踝的舊傷又開(kāi)始隱隱作痛，我心里又一次無(wú)助和不甘：為什么，為什么我總是不能當(dāng)這個(gè)第一，為什么當(dāng)我跨過(guò)一座山的時(shí)候眼前出現(xiàn)的又是一條河?我不禁惱怒了起來(lái)，我也不知道我為什么生氣，為腳傷，為比賽，還是為虛榮心?在這股怒氣的支持下，我在那座老橋上完成了逆轉(zhuǎn)，即使比賽還沒(méi)有結(jié)束，我仍然以勝利者的姿態(tài)回頭瞥了他一眼，但他又一次露出了那種捉摸不透的笑容，嘴里好像還在嘟囔著什么，加油?想到這里，我不禁打了一個(gè)寒噤，生怕第一又被搶了，急沖沖地沖過(guò)了終點(diǎn)。
我贏了，收下了伙伴們的贊美，我也知道我又是老大了。這個(gè)時(shí)候“傻白甜”了“恭喜你啊”他很平靜地表示了自己的佩服，但我總覺(jué)得心里有一點(diǎn)不舒服，這幾天“傻白甜”怎么怪怪的，總感覺(jué)自己被蒙在鼓里……
過(guò)了很久，一個(gè)老朋友才向我道出了真相：“嘁，你真覺(jué)得你能贏一個(gè)田徑隊(duì)隊(duì)長(zhǎng)?他讓你了這么久你沒(méi)有發(fā)現(xiàn)嗎，平常你媽媽在鄰里總是提起你的腳傷，他都一筆一筆記在心上啊，他哪里敢讓你拼命，就算丟了第一也不能讓你變成個(gè)瘸子啊!你居然還不知道，傻的是你啊!”
我愣住了，如今我們各奔東西，縱使我心里有千言萬(wàn)語(yǔ)，也無(wú)處可說(shuō)了?！吧蛋滋稹庇盟尩闹腔郏瑵矞缌宋覂?nèi)心驕縱的火焰。
天下智慧，莫過(guò)舍得美文共3
每一次付出，都意味著下一次的得到。
——題記
眺望茫茫詞海，我最愛(ài)“舍得”——因?yàn)樗请[忍，是勇氣，是果敢，也是純粹——不為舍而得，也不為得而舍，一舍一得皆發(fā)自心間。
何謂“舍得”?
有人說(shuō)，舍得是付出，是不吝嗇。在我看來(lái)，舍得更是一種境界。舍得，是微笑面對(duì)他人，收起自己的情緒，以博大的胸懷去愛(ài)，去舍，去得，去原諒——你必將收獲一片鮮花與掌聲。
翻開(kāi)手中的歷史書(shū)籍，一個(gè)個(gè)歷史人物鮮活地用他們的人生驗(yàn)證了“舍得”二字。韓信能胯下受辱方成大器;勾踐臥薪嘗膽終得滅吳;田忌與齊王賽馬，舍了小負(fù)之悲，得了全勝之喜。
舍得既是一種生活的哲學(xué)，更是一種處世與做人的藝術(shù)。正如蘇軾仕途坎坷，舍棄安逸閑適的生活，得“大江東去，浪淘盡，千古風(fēng)流人物”之豪放絕唱。諸葛亮“鞠躬盡瘁，死而后已”得百世流芳。舍得，就是以一顆淡泊之心笑看風(fēng)云，是陶潛的“采菊東籬下,悠然見(jiàn)南山”的境界，更是王維“君問(wèn)窮通理，漁歌入浦深”的風(fēng)輕云淡的生活。
人是如此，萬(wàn)事萬(wàn)物皆是如此。蠋經(jīng)受化蛹之苦，成為了靚麗的蝴蝶;河蚌付出體內(nèi)的營(yíng)養(yǎng)，最終得到了一顆明皙無(wú)瑕的珍珠;美好的春天是走過(guò)冬天的繁榮;太陽(yáng)舍去自己，為人類帶來(lái)了光明與希望，它的光芒普照著世界的每一個(gè)角落，獲得了人們的一片嘖嘖稱贊;地球有著海納百川的度量，不留余力地供人類生息，換得了一片的勃勃生機(jī)……
回顧曾經(jīng)，多少次，我舍去了別的孩子馳騁在電子游戲間的快樂(lè)，但品味了書(shū)本中無(wú)數(shù)起伏跌宕、蕩氣回腸的故事情節(jié);我舍得在體育場(chǎng)上揮灑汗水，舍得在嚴(yán)肅的畫(huà)室里連續(xù)幾小時(shí)勾勒描畫(huà)，舍得用耐心與細(xì)心在課堂中專心聽(tīng)講……于是，我收獲了健康的體魄，多彩的業(yè)余生活，還有令自己滿意的學(xué)習(xí)成績(jī)。
我愿意將自己的玩具和書(shū)本與同學(xué)們分享，我獲得了同學(xué)真誠(chéng)的友誼;我在媽媽不在家的時(shí)候，汗流浹背幫媽媽整理好房間，收拾好凌亂的廚房，我目睹了媽媽因我的成長(zhǎng)而眼睛微紅的感動(dòng);我在課業(yè)越來(lái)越重的課余，多次參加小記者活動(dòng)，我獲得了“書(shū)堆里的才子”們永遠(yuǎn)體會(huì)不到的成長(zhǎng)經(jīng)驗(yàn)……
正所謂：舍得舍得，不“舍”怎能“得”?這樣想來(lái)，我也擁有了古人生存的智慧，做人的胸襟。宛若風(fēng)雨中沖撞出的第一抹彩虹，有得有失，剛?cè)岵?jì)。
這，便是“舍得”，一個(gè)十一歲女孩眼里最美的詞語(yǔ)!
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舍得舍得，有舍才有得；人生亦是如此。一條路走不通，適時(shí)的轉(zhuǎn)個(gè)彎，或許會(huì)更加精彩；也許，我們舍不得自己付出的時(shí)間和精力，但塞翁失馬，焉知非福，有時(shí)候需要勇敢的放下，去追求另一種更適合自己的生活。
There once was a master who went to India. In those times, we didn't have the communications or airplanes or many kinds of transportation that we do now. So the master went to India on foot. He had never been to India before; perhaps he came from Persia. And when he got there, he saw a lot of fruit. In India they have plenty of fruit to sell, but much of it is expensive because they can't grow much due to the water situation. So he saw one basket, a big basket of some very red, long fruit. And it was the cheapest in the shop, not expensive at all.
從前有一位師父，他到印度去，那時(shí)候因?yàn)榻煌ú话l(fā)達(dá)，沒(méi)有飛機(jī)，不像現(xiàn)在一樣有很多交通工具，所以這位師父就步行去印度。他有可能是波斯人，以前沒(méi)去過(guò)印度。他到印度時(shí)，看見(jiàn)許許多多的水果。在印度，有時(shí)因?yàn)槿彼木壒剩a(chǎn)量不多，許多小店雖然擺滿了水果，但多半都很貴。那位師父發(fā)現(xiàn)有個(gè)大籃子里面裝著一種紅色長(zhǎng)條形的水果，這種水果的價(jià)格最便宜，一點(diǎn)都不貴.
So he went up and asked, “How much per kilo?” And the shopkeeper said, “Two rupees.” Two rupees in India is nothing; it's like dirt. So he bought a whole kilogram of the fruit and started eating it. But after he ate some of it: Oh, my God! His eyes watered, his mouth watered and burned, his eyes were burning, his head was burning and his face became red. As he coughed and choked and gasped for breath, he jumped up and down, saying, “Ah! Ah! Ah!”
他就走過(guò)去詢問(wèn)：“這個(gè)一公斤要多少錢？”小販回答：“兩盧比?！眱杀R比在印度根本不算什么，像塵土一樣不值錢，于是他就整整買了一公斤，然后開(kāi)始吃。 吃了幾口之后，這位師父就眼淚、口水齊流，眼睛發(fā)紅，嘴巴辣得像著火一樣，整個(gè)頭好像要燒起來(lái)，他又咳又嗆，滿臉通紅地喘不過(guò)氣來(lái)，在那里邊跳邊叫：“??！啊！??！”
But he still continued to eat the fruit! Some people who were looking at him shook their heads and said, “You're crazy, man. Those are chilies! You can't eat so many; they're not good for you! People use them as a condiment, but only a little bit to put into food for taste. You can't just eat them by the handful like that; they're not fruit!” So the stupid master said, “No, I can't stop! I paid money for them, and now I'll eat them. It's my money!”
不過(guò)他還是繼續(xù)吃！有人看到他這樣子后，就搖搖頭說(shuō)：“老兄，你是腦袋壞掉啦？這是辣椒耶！不能吃那么多，這樣對(duì)你不好。辣椒是用來(lái)調(diào)味的，煮菜時(shí)每次只放一點(diǎn)點(diǎn)在食物里增加味道。這個(gè)不是水果，不能這樣整把拿起來(lái)吃?。 蹦俏槐繋煾刚f(shuō)：“不行，我已經(jīng)花錢買了，就要把它吃完，這可都是錢哪！”
And you think that master was stupid, right? Similarly, we sometimes do a lot of things like that. We invest money, time or effort in a relationship, business or job. And even though it's been a long time, bitter experience tells us it won't work, and we know there's no more hope that things will change in the future - this we definitely know by intuition - we still continue just because we've invested money, time, effort and love into it. If so, we're kaput in the brain. Just like the man who ate the chilies and suffered so much but couldn't stop because he didn't want to waste the money he'd paid.
你們覺(jué)得這位師父很笨，是嗎？其實(shí)我們有時(shí)候也做很多類似的傻事。有時(shí)候我們?cè)谀承└星榛蚴聵I(yè)工作上，投入了金錢、時(shí)間和心力，經(jīng)過(guò)長(zhǎng)期的經(jīng)營(yíng)之后，我們從慘痛的經(jīng)驗(yàn)中知道行不通，直覺(jué)也很清楚未來(lái)不會(huì)有任何轉(zhuǎn)機(jī)，但我們還是舍不得放棄，因?yàn)橐呀?jīng)投入了金錢、時(shí)間、心力和感情在里面。像這種情形，表示說(shuō)我們頭腦壞掉，就像那個(gè)吃辣椒的人一樣，明明已經(jīng)那么痛苦了，還是不肯停止，只因?yàn)椴幌氚装桌速M(fèi)已經(jīng)付出的錢。
So even if you've lost something, let it go and move on. That's better than continuing to lose.
就算你會(huì)有所損失，還是要放下，然后繼續(xù)前進(jìn)！這樣總比一直損失下去來(lái)得好。
美文欣賞:你可以選擇自己想過(guò)的生活
Occasionally, life can be undeniably, impossibly difficult. We are faced with challenges and events that can seem overwhelming, life-destroying to the point where it may be hard to decide whether to keep going. But you always have a choice. Jessica Heslop shares her powerful, inspiring journey from the worst times in her life to the new life she has created for herself:
生活有時(shí)候困難得難以置信，但又不容置疑。我們面臨的挑戰(zhàn)與困境似乎無(wú)法抵御，試圖毀滅我們生活，甚至使你猶疑是否繼續(xù)走下去。但是你總有選擇的余地。從人生低谷走向新生活的杰西卡·赫斯樂(lè)普，在這里與我們分享她啟迪心靈、充滿震撼力的生活之旅。
In I had the worst year of my life.
是我生活中最艱難的一年。
I worked in a finance job that I hated and I lived in a concrete jungle city with little greenery. I occupied my time with meaningless relationships and spent copious quantities of money on superficialities. I was searching for happiness and had no idea where to find it.
我做著討厭的財(cái)務(wù)工作，住在難尋綠色的高樓林立的城市。我忙于無(wú)意義的交往，在一些膚淺表面的東西上大筆開(kāi)銷。我尋找快樂(lè)，卻又不知道它在哪里。
Then I fell ill with Chronic Fatigue Syndrome (CFS) and became virtually bed bound. I had to quit my job and subsequently was left with no income. I lived with my boyfriend of then only 3 months who financially supported me and our relationship was put under great pressure. I eventually regained my physical health, but not long after that I got a call from my family at home to say that my father’s cancer had fiercely progressed and that he had been admitted to a hospice.
然后我患上了慢性疲勞綜合癥，幾乎到了臥床不起的地步。我不得不辭掉工作，同時(shí)也就斷了財(cái)源。我和那時(shí)僅相處了3個(gè)月的男友住在一起，經(jīng)濟(jì)上完全依賴于他，我們的關(guān)系承受著巨大壓力。終于我恢復(fù)健康，但不久，我接到家里的電話，父親的癌癥急劇惡化，已經(jīng)住進(jìn)了臨終關(guān)懷中心。
I left the city and I went home to be with him.
我離開(kāi)了城市，回家陪父親。
He died 6 months later.
6個(gè)月之后，他去世了。
My father was a complete inspiration to me. He was always so strong that, for a minute after he drew his last breath, I honestly thought he would come back to life. I couldn’t believe I would never again cuddle into his big warm chest and feel safe no matter what.
父親的事讓我徹底清醒。他一直很強(qiáng)壯，在他咽氣之后一分鐘里，我真的認(rèn)為，他會(huì)活過(guò)來(lái)。我不能相信，我再也不能依偎在他溫暖的懷抱里，享受他寬大的胸懷帶給我的安全感。
The grief that followed was intense for all of us 5 children and our mother, but we had each other.
母親和我們5個(gè)兄弟姐妹極為難過(guò)，但至少我們還擁有彼此。
But my oldest sister at that time complained of a bad back. It got so bad after 2 months that she too was admitted to hospital.
但是，那時(shí)我大姐開(kāi)始抱怨著背痛，2個(gè)月后，因疼痛加劇也住進(jìn)了醫(yī)院。
They discovered that she had highly advanced cancer in her bones and that there was nothing that they could do.
醫(yī)生們檢查發(fā)現(xiàn)，她已是骨癌晚期，對(duì)此他們已無(wú)能為力。
She died 1 month later.
1個(gè)月之后，她也走了。
I could never put into words the loss of my sister in my life.
大姐的逝去讓我陷入難以形容的痛苦之中。
She was a walking, talking angel and my favourite person in the whole world. If someone could have asked me the worst thing that could ever happen, it would have been losing her.
在這個(gè)世界上，她是一個(gè)能走路、會(huì)說(shuō)話的天使，我最喜歡的人。如果有人問(wèn)我，世界上發(fā)生的最壞的事情是什么，那就是失去她。
She was my soul-mate and I never thought I would journey this lifetime without her.
她是我的靈魂伴侶，我從來(lái)沒(méi)有想過(guò)，我會(huì)走過(guò)沒(méi)有她陪伴的生命旅程。
The Moment Of Deliberate Choice
抉擇時(shí)刻
The shock and extreme heart break brought me to my knees. The pain was so great and my world just looked desolate. I had no real home, no money, no job, and no friends that cared. Not one person had even sent me a sympathy card for my loss.
我被打擊和極度的心痛擊挎了。強(qiáng)烈的痛苦使世界在我眼中變得如此凄涼。我沒(méi)有真正意義上的家，沒(méi)有錢，沒(méi)有工作，也沒(méi)有關(guān)心我的朋友。沒(méi)有一個(gè)人因我失去親人而寄給我慰問(wèn)卡。
I made an attempt of my own life and I ended up in hospital.
我嘗試著活下去，結(jié)果住進(jìn)了醫(yī)院。
I remember lying in the hospital bed, looking up at the ceiling and seeing my sister’s beautiful face. She stayed with me all night long.
我記得，躺在病床上，看著天花板，看到姐姐美麗的面龐。她整夜守候著我。
I realised during that night that I had a choice. I could choose to end my life or I could choose to live it.
那天晚上，我意識(shí)到我可以選擇。要么結(jié)束生命，要么活下去。
I looked in my sister’s eyes and I made a decision not to go with her just yet. That I would stay and complete my journey here.
望著姐姐的眼睛，我決定不跟她走。我要留下來(lái)，走完我的生命旅程。
I also made the decision that, I wouldn’t just live any life. I would live the life that I absolutely LOVE and nothing less.
同時(shí)，我還決定，不只為生活而生活，我要完全以自己想要的方式生活。
In that moment, the clarity that descended around me was like a light shining in a dark room for the first time. As if the earth’s plates had shifted under my feet and everything suddenly looked real for the first time.
在那一刻，這一想法第一次清晰得如同一盞在黑暗閃爍的明燈。好像腳下的地球版塊變換了，每一樣?xùn)|西在我眼前都真實(shí)得前所未有。
美文賞析:打開(kāi)心門擁抱生活
We often close ourselves off when traumatic events happen in our lives; instead of letting the world soften us, we let it drive us deeper into ourselves. We try to deflect the hurt and pain by pretending it doesn’t exist, but although we can try this all we want, in the end, we can’t hide from ourselves. We need to learn to open our hearts to the potentials of life and let the world soften us.
生活發(fā)生不幸時(shí)，我們常常會(huì)關(guān)上心門；世界不僅沒(méi)能慰藉我們，反倒使我們更加消沉。我們假裝一切仿佛都不曾發(fā)生，以此試圖忘卻傷痛，可就算隱藏得再好，最終也還是騙不了自己。既然如此，何不嘗試打開(kāi)心門，擁抱生活中的各種可能，讓世界感化我們呢？
Whenever we start to let our fears and seriousness get the best of us, we should take a step back and re-evaluate our behavior. The items listed below are six ways you can open your heart more fully and completely.
當(dāng)恐懼與焦慮來(lái)襲時(shí)，我們應(yīng)該退后一步，重新反思自己的言行。下面六個(gè)方法有助于你更完滿透徹地敞開(kāi)心扉。
1. Breathe into pain
直面痛苦
Whenever a painful situation arises in your life, try to embrace it instead of running away or trying to mask the hurt. When the sadness strikes, take a deep breath and lean into it. When we run away from sadness that’s unfolding in our lives, it gets stronger and more real. We take an emotion that’s fleeting and make it a solid event, instead of something that passes through us.
當(dāng)生活中出現(xiàn)痛苦的事情時(shí)，別再逃跑或隱藏痛苦，試著擁抱它吧；當(dāng)悲傷來(lái)襲時(shí)，試著深呼吸，然后直面它。如果我們一味逃避生活中的悲傷，悲傷只會(huì)變得更強(qiáng)烈更真實(shí)——悲傷原本只是稍縱即逝的情緒，我們卻固執(zhí)地耿耿于懷。
By utilizing our breath we soften our experiences. If we dam them up, our lives will stagnate, but when we keep them flowing, we allow more newness and greater experiences to blossom.
深呼吸能減緩我們的感受。屏住呼吸，生活停滯；呼出呼吸，更多新奇與經(jīng)歷又將拉開(kāi)序幕。
2. Embrace the uncomfortable
擁抱不安
We all know what that twinge of anxiety feels like. We know how fear feels in our bodies: the tension in our necks, the tightness in our stomachs, etc. We can practice leaning into these feelings of discomfort and let them show us where we need to go.
我們都經(jīng)歷過(guò)焦灼的煎熬感，也都感受過(guò)恐懼造成的生理反應(yīng)：脖子僵硬、胃酸翻騰。其實(shí)，我們有能力面對(duì)這些痛苦的感受，從中領(lǐng)悟到出路。
The initial impulse is to run away — to try and suppress these feelings by not acknowledging them. When we do this, we close ourselves off to the parts of our lives that we need to experience most. The next time you have this feeling of being truly uncomfortable, do yourself a favor and lean into the feeling. Act in spite of the fear.
我們的第一反應(yīng)總是逃避——以為否認(rèn)不安情緒的存在就能萬(wàn)事大吉，可這也恰好妨礙了我們經(jīng)歷最需要的生活體驗(yàn)。下次感到不安時(shí)，不管有多害怕，也請(qǐng)?jiān)囍赂颐鎸?duì)吧。
3. Ask your heart what it wants
傾聽(tīng)內(nèi)心
We’re often confused at the next step to take, making pros and cons lists until our eyes bleed and our brains are sore. Instead of always taking this approach, what if we engaged a new part of ourselves that isn’t usually involved in the decision making process?
我們常對(duì)未來(lái)猶疑不定，反復(fù)考慮利弊直到身心俱疲。與其一味顧慮重重，不如從局外人的角度看待決策之事。
I know we’ve all felt decisions or actions that we had to take simply due to our “gut” impulses: when asked, we can’t explain the reasons behind doing so — just a deep knowing that it had to get done. This instinct is the part of ourselves we’re approaching for answers.
其實(shí)很多決定或行動(dòng)都是我們一念之間的結(jié)果：要是追問(wèn)原因的話，恐怕我們自己也道不清說(shuō)不明，只是感到直覺(jué)如此罷了。而這種直覺(jué)恰好是我們探索結(jié)果的潛在自我。
To start this process, take few deep breaths then ask, “Heart, what decision should I make here? What action feels the most right?”
開(kāi)始前先做幾次深呼吸，問(wèn)自己：“內(nèi)心認(rèn)為該做什么樣的決定呢？覺(jué)得采取哪個(gè)方案最恰當(dāng)？”
See what comes up, then engage and evaluate the outcome.
看看自己的內(nèi)心反應(yīng)如何，然后全力以赴、靜待結(jié)果吧。
美文賞析:生活中你錯(cuò)過(guò)了什么？
In this life, what did you miss?
在生活中，你錯(cuò)過(guò)了什么？
The wife asked the husband when she was 25. Despondently, the husband replied: 'I missed a new job opportunity.'
妻子25歲的時(shí)候這樣問(wèn)丈夫。丈夫沮喪地回答：“我錯(cuò)過(guò)了一個(gè)新的工作機(jī)會(huì)?！?/p>
When she was 35, the husband angrily told her that he had just missed the bus.
35歲時(shí)，丈夫生氣地說(shuō)他錯(cuò)過(guò)了公交車。
At 45, the husband sadly said: 'I missed the oppotunity seeing my closed relative before his last breath.'
45歲時(shí)，丈夫悲傷地說(shuō)：“我錯(cuò)過(guò)了見(jiàn)至親最后一面的機(jī)會(huì)?！?/p>
At 55, the husband said disappointingly: 'I missed a good chance to retire.'
55歲時(shí)，丈夫失望地說(shuō)：“我錯(cuò)過(guò)了一個(gè)退休的好機(jī)會(huì)?！?/p>
At 65, the husband hurriedly replied: 'I missed a dental appointment.'
65歲時(shí)，丈夫匆匆地回答：“我錯(cuò)過(guò)了和牙醫(yī)的預(yù)約?！?/p>
At 75, the wife did not ask the husband anymore, the husband was kneeling in front of the very sick wife. Remembering the question the wife used to ask him, this time he asked the wife the same question. The wife, with a smile and peaceful look, replied: 'In this life, I did not miss having you!'
75歲，妻子不再問(wèn)丈夫同樣的問(wèn)題，丈夫跪在病重的妻子面前，想起以前妻子常常問(wèn)起的那個(gè)問(wèn)題，這次他也問(wèn)了妻子同樣的問(wèn)題，妻子笑了笑，一臉平靜地說(shuō)：“我這一生，沒(méi)有錯(cuò)過(guò)你！”
The husband was full of tears. He always thought that they could be together forever. He was always busy with work and trifles. So much so he had never been thoughtful to his wife. The husband hugged the wife tightly and said: 'Over 50 years, how I had allowed myself to miss your deep love for me.'
丈夫滿眼淚水，他總是認(rèn)為可以和妻子白頭到老，于是總是忙于工作和瑣事，從沒(méi)在意過(guò)妻子。他緊緊地抱住妻子說(shuō)：“這50多年來(lái)，我怎么能允許自己錯(cuò)過(guò)了你對(duì)我的愛(ài)呢。”
In the busy city life, there are many people who are always busy with work. These people revolve their lives around their jobs, these people sacrifice all their times and health to meet the social expectations. They are unwilling to spend times on health care. They miss the opportunity to be with their children in their growing up. They neglect the loved ones who care for them, and also their health.
在繁忙的城市生活中，有人總是忙于工作。他們整天圍著工作轉(zhuǎn)，甚至為了達(dá)到社會(huì)的標(biāo)準(zhǔn)，犧牲了自己的健康。他們不愿花時(shí)間來(lái)關(guān)注自己的健康，在孩子成長(zhǎng)的過(guò)程中錯(cuò)失了與之共享天倫之樂(lè)的機(jī)會(huì)。他們忽視了那些關(guān)心他們的人，以及他們的`健康。
Nobody knows what is going to happen one year from now.
沒(méi)有人知道一年后會(huì)發(fā)生什么事情。
Life is not permanent, so always live in the now. Express your gratitude to your loved ones in words. Show your care with actions. Treat everyday as the last episode of life. In this way, when you are gone, you loved ones would have nothing to feel sorry about.
生命不是永恒的，所以活在當(dāng)下吧。把你對(duì)愛(ài)人的感謝說(shuō)出來(lái)，用行動(dòng)證明你關(guān)心他們。把每一天當(dāng)作人生的最后一個(gè)篇章，只有這樣，當(dāng)你離開(kāi)時(shí)，你愛(ài)的人們才會(huì)沒(méi)有遺憾。
美文賞析:去經(jīng)歷去體驗(yàn) 做最好最真實(shí)的自己
Truly happy and successful people get that way by becoming the best, most genuine version of themselves they can be. Not on the outside--on the inside. It's not about a brand, a reputation, a persona. It's about reality. Who you really are.
真正快樂(lè)成功的人會(huì)長(zhǎng)成最好最真實(shí)的自己——從內(nèi)心而非外表上。重要的不是品牌、名譽(yù)或者外表形象，而是真實(shí)的自我。
Sounds simple, I know. It is a simple concept. The problem is, it's very hard to do, it takes a lot of work, and it can take a lifetime to figure it out.
道理很簡(jiǎn)單，講出來(lái)也很容易。但問(wèn)題是，做起來(lái)就不簡(jiǎn)單了：這需要付諸很多努力，甚或一輩子才能實(shí)現(xiàn)。
Nothing worth doing in life is ever easy. If you want to do great work, it's going to take a lot of hard work to do it. And you're going to have to break out of your comfort zone and take some chances that will scare the crap out of you.
需要窮盡畢生精力的事情必定不容易。成大事者必先苦其心志。因此，你必須走出舒適區(qū)，去經(jīng)歷、去體驗(yàn)?zāi)切?huì)讓你害怕的機(jī)會(huì)。
But you know, I can't think of a better way to spend your life. I mean, what's life for if not finding yourself and trying to become the best, most genuine version of you that you can be?
況且，人這一輩子，若到頭來(lái)都認(rèn)不清自己、未能長(zhǎng)成最好最真實(shí)的自己，還有什么意義呢？
That's what Steve Jobs meant when he said this at a Stanford University commencement speech:
正如史蒂夫-喬布斯在斯坦福大學(xué)的畢業(yè)典禮上所言：
Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice.
時(shí)間寶貴，不要虛擲光陰過(guò)著他人的生活。不要讓周遭的聒噪言論蒙蔽你內(nèi)心的聲音。
You have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something--your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life.
你要相信，生活中的偶然冥冥中也能指引未來(lái)。你要心懷信念——相信你的直覺(jué)、命運(yùn)、生活抑或因緣。這個(gè)方法一直給我力量，促使我過(guò)得卓然不同。
The only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven't found it yet, keep looking. Don't settle.
成大事的唯一途徑就是做自己喜歡的事情。若你還沒(méi)找到，那就繼續(xù)追尋吧，不要停下來(lái)。
Now, let's for a moment be realistic about this. Insightful as that advice may be, it sounds a little too amorphous and challenging to resonate with today's quick-fix culture. These days, if you can't tell people exactly what to do and how to do it, it falls on deaf ears.
現(xiàn)在我們來(lái)實(shí)際一點(diǎn)：建議或許很深刻，但聽(tīng)完卻讓人無(wú)從著手，難以運(yùn)用到當(dāng)今的快節(jié)奏文化中?，F(xiàn)如今，如果一個(gè)建議講不清具體做什么、該怎么做的話，那么說(shuō)了也等于白說(shuō)。
Not only that, but what Jobs was talking about, what I'm talking about, requires focus and discipline, two things that are very hard to come by these days. Why? Because, focus and discipline are hard. It's so much easier to give in to distraction and instant gratification. Easy and addictive.
不僅如此，喬布斯的講話和我要說(shuō)的話都需要集中和自制——這兩個(gè)品質(zhì)在當(dāng)今社會(huì)非常難能可貴。何以見(jiàn)得？因?yàn)榧泻妥灾贫疾蝗菀鬃龅?。人們很容易分散注意力、尋求即時(shí)快感——舒服且容易上癮。
To give you a little incentive to take on the challenge, to embark on the road to self-discovery, here are three huge benefits from working to become the best, most genuine version of yourself.
為激勵(lì)你迎接挑戰(zhàn)、踏上尋求自我的旅途，我列出了成為最好最真實(shí)自己后的三大益處：
It will make you happy. Getting to know yourself will make you feel more comfortable in your own skin. It will reduce your stress and anxiety. It will make you a better spouse, a better parent, a better friend. It will make you a better person. Those are all pretty good reasons, if you ask me.
你會(huì)感到快樂(lè)。了解自己后會(huì)讓你更愉悅地接受自己，減輕你的壓力和焦慮，使你成為更好的伴侶、父母、朋友，讓你成為一個(gè)更美好的人。這些益處難道不夠說(shuō)服你為之努力嗎？
Besides, you really won't achieve anything significant in life until you know the real you. Not your brand, your LinkedIn profile, how you come across, or what anyone thinks of you. The genuine you. There's one simple reason why you shouldn't try to be something you're not, and it's that you can't. The real you will come out anyway. So forget your personal brand and start spending time on figuring out who you really are and trying to become the best version of that you can be.
而且，只有了解真實(shí)的自己方能成就大事。你需要了解那個(gè)真實(shí)的你，而不是你的品牌、名譽(yù)、LinkedlIn資料、你的過(guò)去抑或他人對(duì)你的看法。為什么你不應(yīng)該過(guò)他人的生活？很簡(jiǎn)單，因?yàn)槭紫饶悴皇恰捌渌恕保愕谋拘钥傆幸惶鞎?huì)現(xiàn)形。所以，請(qǐng)放開(kāi)你的品牌形象，努力發(fā)掘真實(shí)自我、努力把自己經(jīng)營(yíng)成最好的自己吧。
美文賞析:愛(ài)情不是商品
Love Is Not Like Merchandise
愛(ài)情不是商品
A reader in Florida, apparently bruised by some personal experience, writes in to complain, “If I steal a nickel's worth of merchandise, I am a thief and punished; but if I steal the love of another's wife, I am free.”
佛羅里達(dá)州的一位讀者顯然是在個(gè)人經(jīng)歷上受過(guò)創(chuàng)傷, 他寫(xiě)信來(lái)抱怨道: “如果我偷走了五分錢的商品, 我就是個(gè)賊, 要受到懲罰, 但是如果我偷走了他人妻子的愛(ài)情, 我沒(méi)事兒。”
This is a prevalent misconception in many people's minds---that love, like merchandise, can be “stolen”. Numerous states, in fact, have enacted laws allowing damages for “alienation of affections”.
這是許多人心目中普遍存在的一種錯(cuò)誤觀念——愛(ài)情, 像商品一樣, 可以 “偷走”。實(shí)際上，許多州都頒布法令，允許索取“情感轉(zhuǎn)讓”賠償金。
But love is not a commodity; the real thing cannot be bought, sold, traded or stolen. It is an act of the will, a turning of the emotions, a change in the climate of the personality.
但是愛(ài)情并不是商品；真情實(shí)意不可能買到，賣掉，交換，或者偷走。愛(ài)情是志愿的行動(dòng)，是感情的轉(zhuǎn)向，是個(gè)性發(fā)揮上的變化。
When a husband or wife is “stolen” by another person, that husband or wife was already ripe for the stealing, was already predisposed toward a new partner. The “l(fā)ove bandit” was only taking what was waiting to be taken, what wanted to be taken.
當(dāng)丈夫或妻子被另一個(gè)人“偷走”時(shí)，那個(gè)丈夫或妻子就已經(jīng)具備了被偷走的條件，事先已經(jīng)準(zhǔn)備接受新的伴侶了。這位“愛(ài)匪”不過(guò)是取走等人取走、盼人取走的東西。
We tend to treat persons like goods. We even speak of the children “belonging” to their parents. But nobody “belongs” to anyone else. Each person belongs to himself, and to God. Children are entrusted to their parents, and if their parents do not treat them properly, the state has a right to remove them from their parents' trusteeship.
我們往往待人如物。我們甚至說(shuō)孩子“屬于”父母。但是誰(shuí)也不“屬于”誰(shuí)。人都屬于自己和上帝。孩子是托付給父母的，如果父母不善待他們，州政府就有權(quán)取消父母對(duì)他們的托管身份。
Most of us, when young, had the experience of a sweetheart being taken from us by somebody more attractive and more appealing. At the time, we may have resented this intruder---but as we grew older, we recognized that the sweetheart had never been ours to begin with. It was not the intruder that “caused” the break, but the lack of a real relationship.
我們多數(shù)人年輕時(shí)都有過(guò)戀人被某個(gè)更有誘惑力、更有吸引力的人奪去的經(jīng)歷。在當(dāng)時(shí)，我們興許怨恨這位不速之客---但是后來(lái)長(zhǎng)大了，也就認(rèn)識(shí)到了心上人本來(lái)就不屬于我們。并不是不速之客“導(dǎo)致了”決裂，而是缺乏真實(shí)的關(guān)系。
On the surface, many marriages seem to break up because of a “third party”. This is, however, a psychological illusion. The other woman or the other man merely serves as a pretext for dissolving a marriage that had already lost its essential integrity.
從表面上看，許多婚姻似乎是因?yàn)橛辛恕暗谌摺辈牌屏训?。然而這是一種心理上的幻覺(jué)。另外那個(gè)女人，或者另外那個(gè)男人，無(wú)非是作為借口，用來(lái)解除早就不是完好無(wú)損的婚姻罷了。
Nothing is more futile and more self-defeating than the bitterness of spurned love, the vengeful feeling that someone else has “come between” oneself and a beloved. This is always a distortion of reality, for people are not the captives or victims of others---they are free agents, working out their own destinies for good or for ill.
因失戀而痛苦，因別人“插足”于自己與心上人之間而圖報(bào)復(fù)，是最沒(méi)有出息、最自作自受的樂(lè)。這種事總是歪曲了事實(shí)真相，因?yàn)檎l(shuí)都不是給別人當(dāng)俘虜或犧牲品——人都是自由行事的，不論命運(yùn)是好是壞，都由自己來(lái)作主。
But the rejected lover or mate cannot afford to believe that his beloved has freely turned away from him--- and so he ascribes sinister or magical properties to the interloper. He calls him a hypnotist or a thief or a home-breaker. In the vast majority of cases, however, when a home is broken, the breaking has begun long before any “third party” has appeared on the scene.
但是，遭離棄的情人或配偶無(wú)法相信她的心上人是自由地背離他的——因而他歸咎于插足者心術(shù)不正或迷人有招。他把他叫做催眠師、竊賊或破壞家庭的人。然而，從大多數(shù)事例看，一個(gè)家的破裂，是早在什么“第三者”出現(xiàn)之前就開(kāi)始了的。
天下智慧，莫過(guò)舍得美文共5
有一則小故事講述的是一對(duì)父子倆宴請(qǐng)一個(gè)生意場(chǎng)上的朋友，席間這個(gè)朋友卻一直挑自己愛(ài)吃的菜吃個(gè)沒(méi)完，不顧別人。父親就告訴兒子說(shuō)這個(gè)朋友不能深交，因他在利益誘惑面前不能有長(zhǎng)遠(yuǎn)的眼光。
讀了這個(gè)故事后我就在想：也許這個(gè)朋友因?yàn)槌韵鄦?wèn)題已經(jīng)失去了許多機(jī)會(huì)，他自己卻還渾然不覺(jué)。果真是因小失大。其實(shí)，小到商場(chǎng)上的利益關(guān)系，大到人生中的各種誘惑，學(xué)會(huì)“舍得”都是十分必要的。
香港四大才子之一的蔡瀾曾經(jīng)講述過(guò)這樣一個(gè)經(jīng)歷。一次他到國(guó)外去游玩，看到一個(gè)男人正在橋邊釣魚(yú)。蔡瀾發(fā)現(xiàn)男人釣魚(yú)的這邊魚(yú)都非常小，而另一旁的魚(yú)卻很大。于是他就對(duì)男人說(shuō)：“嘿，這邊的魚(yú)大得多!”誰(shuí)知那個(gè)男人卻一笑：“可是我釣的是早餐啊!”只是簡(jiǎn)簡(jiǎn)單單的一句話，就道出了人性中的貪婪。的確，生活中的太多煩惱都是因?yàn)椴粫?huì)“舍”而造成的。你抱怨工作的辛苦與壓力，沒(méi)法多陪陪父母;抱怨城市的空氣污濁，沒(méi)法享受自然美景…… 可當(dāng)你舍棄這些無(wú)關(guān)緊要的名利，你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)，你所得到的比虛無(wú)的名利多的多。
《瓦爾登湖》的作者梭羅，正是舍棄了物質(zhì)帶給他的虛無(wú)享受，才得到了人生的真諦;一位古希臘哲學(xué)家曾說(shuō)過(guò)：“多余的錢財(cái)買多余的東西?！甭愤b在鄉(xiāng)下艱苦生活多年，才寫(xiě)出《平凡的世界》這樣的鴻篇巨作;“繡口一吐就是半個(gè)盛唐”的李白，正是舍掉了虛名浮利，整日詩(shī)酒為伴劍嘯長(zhǎng)虹，才成就了許多影響巨大的壯美詩(shī)篇…… 這些人們，放下了多少讓他人趨之若鶩的錢財(cái)與名利，只為自己內(nèi)心純凈而執(zhí)著的夢(mèng)想，卻得到了自己之前從未想過(guò)的美麗人生。
在我們的生活中，需要舍棄的比比皆是。而我們有時(shí)卻總被短暫的利益與快樂(lè)蒙蔽了雙眼，因此失去了碰觸心底真實(shí)聲響的機(jī)會(huì)。
正是“無(wú)心插柳柳成蔭?！鄙傩┢髨D心，舍去些眼前的蠅頭小利，多向遠(yuǎn)方望望，你就會(huì)得到不一樣的美好人生。
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